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Mind Over Manners

by Rob Aldridge & The Proponents

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1.
Mind Over Manners (Aldridge) They came down Main Street With the hell of ancient cries Ripped and burned through storefronts Like it was wool over their eyes And the city said, “what about broken glass?” And the police said, “settle down, it’ll pass.” How can we even try to deny? Why do we even wonder why they would want to break from these eternal beginnings and rise? Its just mind over manners And it applies to you and I. If they were to give me their shoes And say “boy go take a stroll” I believe I might defer to Some asshole that thinks he knows. You gotta know how to move while you hide You gotta know how to breathe when they lie How can we even try to deny? Why do we even wonder why they would want to break from these eternal beginnings and rise? Its just mind over manners
2.
Poor Taste 05:11
Why did I think I could hide what you found? (M) I was always better at doggin’ around. (F) Well, well, well…So I’m a clown again (M) Yea yea, more like you made yourself a friend (F) This ain’t no kinda time to make amends. You gotta let me go (M) No, you gotta let me go (F) How long must I pay for your poor taste? I know you know you made me raise my hand (M) Don’t sweat it, I don’t think it counts unless you’re a man (F) My, my, my, look at the fangs on you (M) Boy you know you’re lucky you ain’t black and blue (F) This ain’t know kinda time to tell the truth. You gotta let me go (M) No, you gotta let me go (F) How long must I pay for your poor taste? And it makes me feel alive Just to think of ways that I could die Is it really hard to see If the whole world seems to disagree We might be wrong You gotta let me go (M) No, you gotta let me go (F)
3.
Little Lou 02:42
Little Lou, you’ve got a true shine Where the sidewalk ends won’t change your mind Don’t be afraid to try on used shoes Don’t let a man tell you about woman’s blues Yea, try to keep it ‘tween the ditches No, it doesn’t have to be a straight line I think you’ll be fine When the odds pile up against you Take comfort knowing you’re not amongst the few When the hard heads try to squeeze you And you wanna hide your heart and shield your view Yea, try to focus on the “why” When people are unkind I think you’ll be fine And if I get one last wish In the years that I might miss On the floor in the wood grain, In the drops on the window pane, Everywhere you look you’ll find a sign That I think you’ll be fine
4.
This Time 03:23
The mating robins battle The dying winter rattles In the pre-sun blue Feral cats roam out of sight Sirens of love In the post-night I can hear a subtle frenzy Buzzing out of view The low drifting fog Settles into dew It’s springtime in my neighborhood All God’s children wanna make good This time The sun starts to ascend The light begins to bend Through a threat of rain To catch the colors before they pass You hold our your hand But it never lasts The flowers crack their blooms My thoughts return to you Will our love renew? Did we bloom too soon? It’s springtime in my neighborhood All God’s children wanna make good This time
5.
Well he asks her how she’s feeling, As if she can’t, and thats his point Probably what she’s feeling now Is everything at once But she makes it to her car While his smoke still hangs in the air Love’s her twisted blanket It always leaves her cold somewhere But down here, she’d rather be cold all over Down here, warm hearts make you older So she’d rather be cold all over Than to fall in love down here She’s busted ass for what she’s got Since she burned everything she had Some Woody Allen movie Really got her mad She’s worn a hole right through her sub-floors With boys’ tears and blank stares Love’s her twisted blanket It always leaves her cold somewhere But down here, she’d rather be cold all over Down here, warm hearts make you older So she’d rather be cold all over Than to fall in love down here She’s the blue amongst black and white When its right it’s never fair Love’s her twisted blanket It always leaves her cold somewhere
6.
Beatlesque nowhere, warm like a womb And never too soon to leave Beatlesque nowhere, wave after wave People don’t save, they just cave I’ll be right here with no patience, spinning Backslide in a thread and start panning Ugh, why? Maybe “division” is not the word, come push to shove After all we know by now, peace is not a glove Maybe we’re just distancing from everything but love. It’s devilish out there, hearts eating sleeves The papers don’t read, they just seed We’ll be back someday, it really ain’t clear You don’t forget fear, it just bides it’s time I’ll be right here with my cards all showing Making plans but never knowing How? Maybe “division” is not the word, come push to shove After all we know by now, peace is not a glove Maybe we’re just distancing from everything but love.
7.
Want It More 03:59
Tell me if I’m getting this right I’m falling off the couch to hear You say I gotta be out tonight? I suppose the wait was worse than the fear Tell me I’m right Lets change it up for kicks, for spite You told me not to call you at night And I had no reply because I love And now I bet she’s just standing there Gnawing on a piece of the truth In a lot of ways I’m just standing here I’m searching for something, too Something to make her happy Maybe something she could carry You gotta want it more than me Look at you just itching to change shit up You’ve overflowed to fill your cup Trying to show the whole town you’re fine But they hate your reasons why and I still love you But no, I bet she’s just standing there Burning bad pictures of me In a lot of ways I’m just waiting here For something to jar free Something to make her happy Maybe something she could carry You gotta want it more than me Hit me up for a lunch break in the buff Put me down if you need to make this tough I know you’ll remember like I do. I’m searching for something, too Something to make her happy Maybe something she could carry You gotta want it more than me Could you want it more than me?
8.
Mean Grass 04:15
Billy wasn’t leaving Iron City All on his high school charm Hard work and drinking led to self pity Self pity crystalized behind his firearm One night he heard the bells of hell He knew that he had to get well So he set out with every devil close behind Ice cream and mama on his mind Through the blazing fields of green Under every ghost of the Sun’s past And emerges clean and bloody from the mean grass Sheila’s daddy put her mama’s picture away She put her ticket out with mama in the Iron City dirt But daddy wanted more than all the reasons she stayed So she made a boutonnière and started to flirt Clutching pieces of her prom dress she thought, “That wasn’t quite like daddy does it.” She left the boy in the car and every crossed line behind An old picture of herself on her mind Through the blazing fields of green Under every ghost of the Sun’s past And emerges clean and bloody from the mean grass If seeing is believing Maybe we’re not here If Jesus Christ crossed the picket line Then we’re clear From the dirt roads to the city streets Our own blazing fields of green See us rising I call it rising Under every ghost of the Sun’s past See us rising We’re rising Stripped clean and bloody From the mean grass
9.
Your god is gonna need to book a trip Just to fight you in his dirt The earth’s been drifting through space with your prayers And what they’re calling a church? If asses were as narrow as minds They’d put a thousand in a pew I’m not counting on your second-rate angel I’d rather count on you Singing Ooooooh ho ho ho ho It’s not your faith that’s jamming my craw It’s thinking one way suits us all And if what you say is true I think there’s some explaining to do Drawing lines in the public sand Your whole sanctimonious bit Listing conditions of your unconditioned love It’s all the same old shit Oh yes, lets talk about love Maybe walk it like you talk Your draconian pandemonium up a flag Over outlines in chalk Singing Ooooh ho ho ho ho It’s not your faith that’s jamming my craw It’s thinking one way suits us all And if what you say is true I think there’s some explaining to do
10.
I never thought I’d be popping balloons Watching my flesh go white The pills ran out with the workman’s comp Traded a problem for a fight Mind the sores, mind the blood Mining for an easy day I shutter to think of my mama’s eyes Lord what would daddy say My shaky hands, moving ‘round money Pinch my pennies till they crack like wood I’m going down to see the Devil on Sunday Lord, lord, never felt so good The creases on the picture of my baby girl Spread like veins to her smile Gets me itching for that carmine cloud Writhe across the tile Mind the corners of the cabinets Mind the hole where the spiders come and go A little help from Uncle Sam Got a hell of a row to hoe My shaky hands, scraping up money Pinch my pennies till they crack like wood I’m going down to see the Devil on Sunday Lord, lord, never felt so good
11.
You’re quietly suspicious Of your oldest dearest friends You think you catch the rift But it splinters on the end And all these shadows do Is just what they are told Still you wrestle with the unknown You sweat when you’re not cold Forfeit all your say-so In a desperate need to please Its the path of least resistance But you hardly go with ease I think I know you Yea, I think I know you And all who we call family, Are just the loneliest of company You chalk it up to history Like it forced you to be strong But it all just feels like weakness And its been there all along You meet folks who know just what to do And seem to know they can You pray they’re all just liars While your pockets hold your hands Find the deadest bar Earn yourself a pity round Feed your undead flowers And pretend to come around I think I know you Yea, I think I know you And all who we call family, Are just the loneliest of company Leave the mirrors, take the smoke Only dogs can hear you scream And you’ve forgotten when you woke Your body loves to go But your heart can’t change it’s scene You cherish every dream However few and far between I think I know you Yea, I think I know you And all who we call family, Are just the loneliest of company
12.
Ball Of Yarn 06:08
The Devil takes a break from all the bad To dip his toe into my watering hole And try his hand at love Guided by his strings I sing the songs That make her soar And the drinks get cheaper Behind the bolted door Can I handle a scandal? I’m way past avoiding harm Maybe you could just stay My kitty in the city And I’ll stay your ball of yarn Swerving home singing Buckley songs Till I remember what I forgot If something feels “So Real” Be bettin’ that its not. Pushing through the smokey memory So that I make complete the tasks Stabilize my image And tighten up my mask Can we handle a scandal? Trade palaces for a moon-lit barn Maybe you could just stay My kitty in the city And I’ll stay your ball of yarn

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Mind Over Manner takes authentic, risky rock n roll; then flavors it with a gritty southern disposition and the soulful musical influences of Muscle Shoals, AL. Lyrically, it is a reflection of the human experience. The songs present fresh perspectives on anxiety, racial and political tensions, religion, love, and family.

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released January 21, 2022

Produced by Jay Burgess and Rob Aldridge
Recorded at Studio 144 in Greenhill, AL
Engineered and Mixed by Jay Burgess
Mastered by Richard Dodd
All songs written by Rob Aldridge, ASCAP
Lyrical Contributions from Gary Nichols (Devil On Sunday)
& Freddie Hewitt (Poor Taste)


Rob Aldridge - Vocals, Guitar
Rob Malone - Guitar
Stone Anderson - Bass
Nick Recio - Drums
Clint Chandler - Keys
Caleb Elliott - Cello
Kimi Samson - Violin
Wanda Wesolowski - Vocals (Poor Taste)

Cover Art by Rob Aldridge
Photography - Joshua Black Wilkins
Casey Nicole Conley (select insert photos)
Design - Casey Nicole Conle

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Rob Aldridge is a singer songwriter from Muscle Shoals, AL. His smokey, soulful, southern voice and lyrics win over anyone who loves a good story and his musical delivery and personality are charming and addictive.

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